Saturday, May 31, 2008

Teh Tarik Just Now

Just got home from Teh Tarik and gossips with the girls....Going to shower now and Zzzzzz

3 days holiday!

Plans for tomorrow, Saturday 1st June 2008:

Movie - yes in the afternoon!
Kuala Belait - after the movie
Cuz berbedak mandi - skip
Coffee - catching up with old friends - early evening
BBQ - again, now 2 saturdays in a row!

Moving.....

I am still thinking whether to or not accept the offer. The role is challenging but it is again far from what I study. Should I try? Oh no....will I be out in the sun that much! I dont want that kind of tan!

Love ya gals - thanks for the updates, see you guys esok!

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

VERY BUSY today

I am back at work after about 2 weeks course...Lotsa, lotsa catching up to do...emails...boss...emails....staff...boss...in-tray....boss again....no time to even check my text messages. Left office at 5 - zoom off to Essensuals to have my hair coloured. I have a new hair colour.... :).

Later I will have to work on my presentation slides for tomorrow. Batah jua cuti mandatori ani eh kan datang.

Where are you girls off to tonight? I have to give it a missed, have to work on my presso! Nda tejawap karang esok.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Monday, May 12, 2008

Something interesting!.... hee

How to date a divorced man?

If you’ve just begun dating a divorced man, you may soon realize that the “regular” dating rules don’t always apply. Whether it’s due to encounters with his ex, issues concerning his children or heavier-than-average baggage, dating a divorced man can be especially challenging. For tips on how to enjoy a fulfilling relationship with a divorced man, heed the advice of Dr. Christie Hartman, author of Dating the Divorced Man: Sort Through the Baggage to Decide if He’s Right for You.

Q: In which ways is dating a divorced man different than dating a man who has never been married?
A: Divorced men have more baggage than never-married men. And while baggage doesn’t have to be a negative thing, it does create more challenges that you will need to be prepared for.

Q: When dating a divorced man, is there anything in particular that women should be wary of?
A: Women should definitely be on the lookout for a guy who’s not yet over his marriage. He’ll talk excessively about the marriage, ex-wife, or divorce, frequently praise or badmouth his ex, and spend more time with the ex than is necessary for children or polite friendship. It’s OK if he displays these signs once in a while, but they should not occur frequently.

Q: In your opinion, are most divorced men looking for another long-term relationship?
A: Some divorced men, especially if the divorce is recent, may be more interested in having fun than in having a relationship. Unfortunately, they may not be aware of this, or if they are, they may not share it with you. Usually after being single for a couple of years, the issues surrounding a man’s divorce — and his grief about it — will resolve itself.

Q: When it comes to dating divorced men, are there definite don’ts?
A: Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Find out if his divorce is final, when he separated, if he has children, why his marriage ended, etc. Also, don’t give too much too soon. Divorced men, especially if still divorcing or recently divorced, can be needy. Never give more than you are getting.